Are we able to change? Can I change late? Is, for example, someone who is cheating can vary and be arranged faithful one woman? I suppose they asked questions that we tend to ask ourselves every time. This is true about people we know for a long time. People were labeled, rightly or wrongly, nicknames features and try to change their behavior. Is this real change or whether the second class is a cosmetic change that inner thing.
We usually tend Lhtkba our workings. Likely to change if it exists is small and not significant. We remain fans of football from an early age and not change this preference. We eat a certain way. Talk, listen, eat, go the same way since childhood. Even the basic thinking or our attitude towards the world does not change over the years. On the contrary, we adopt the same habits we have the same thoughts and justify them are present and in retrospect involuntarily. We all gain life experience. We transcend those experiences and examples of our thinking and survive them.
“Man is the product of his childhood landscape” that song was written. We’re all products of experience, disappointments, hopes and reality does not always straighten up with our thinking. Sometimes we can change and change. Rarely if ever.
Dramatic event in our lives will change. We can change ourselves apart if possible factors, to understand what happened and build ourselves again. Dissolution must be total, painful, has a powerful effect, and most importantly our ability to further understand picking us an extraordinary opportunity to live the change. Be contrary to the new field for what we have become accustomed. get it, examine it to contain it and change. Just like being another one of the major areas of your life.
It is not easy. We do not give ourselves the privilege of disintegration.’s Breaking of humiliation that you touch the deepest fears. Touching and feeling nothing, “I’m yours Hmkolf any defenses you have built painstakingly over many years. This journey into the unknown. Journey into yourself when you are exposed person more important than anything. To yourself. Completely exposed.
This situation where you see the need for change. This enforced change on you without you can protect yourself, rid yourself from having this existential. Or you or is the same body. The same entity called me. That’s when you from the bottom being. Intensity of your ability to look inside deep into anguished soul. That’s when we change values. change the morality, utility, justice and values of the other overcome your ego. for being the most important. that’s when you contains the other needs and desires. That’s when starting the desired change.
This is not just a lengthy process. Easy to withdraw it. Usually we retreat from it. It is not easy, to say the least, to confront the truth. Confront yourself. It’s a change that leads you to a new way. Different from what you know, different from what you knew before. This change requires that after you can not return to your behavior. Habits ask this but thinking it will prevent the re-positioning. All merge into it, all those habits Nlozim remain without direction. A new person was born. Just late enough.
Take for example the same person who was never faithful. Chaser in his life. The change is not semantic. Is a significant change being a traitor Got a trustee. It also random change commitment relationship. Commitment is credible is loyalty. The rest just does not matter essentially of us. Because it is a double contact, but, a load of meaningless actions. All rules of conduct associated with it are also changing. Suddenly you do not need to keep secret, lie, distort, hide, hide, commit adultery, cheat, plan your life under a heavy veil of lies large and small, expensive distorted reality. Everything becomes visible, open, flowing., Is more pure.
Are not you afraid when the phone calls Zogtc life with you. Here, too, have set the connection really change the name you give him. , This Zogtc life. So you define it, undertakes her yourself. Want about a long and protracted, contact life together. Connection of mutual trust. Us that you know what you want, what she wants. What you both want a relationship that unites the right.
Back to the beginning of the article .. Are we able to change? The answer is yes. If you passed all the stages of change. Not skipped any step, Cabt deep, exposed your weaknesses, understanding the whole process of change and the decision of yourself. Then you’re in the other area. Area good and right.